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Older Sister Advice 101!

Topic: Negative NASTY comparison 

Dear You, 

     If there was one thing I could tell you that I would really want you to know, it would be that "comparison is the thief of joy".

 But what does this exactly mean? When you compare yourself to someone else's life, you lose the appreciation you have for your own. Constantly thinking this way will take away your confidence & happiness. What makes this even more unhealthy is that you begin to train your mind to think that way, even though things may not be how you perceive them. For example, someone's social media presence can look so happy, fulfilling, and overall just "lucky", but in reality, you don't know what they might be going through. 

Doing this will only hurt yourself and stunt your OWN journey. This is your life, you get to choose what to do next. So don't waste it focusing on someone else's!! Learn to admire someone else's growth without letting it cost your own. 

- Love, 

Miss Older Sister 💘

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